1st Day of School

As expected, Mom and Dad have struggled to keep up with blogging… From time to time, we like to ask each other ‘are you going to update Madelyn’s blog?’, but that’s usually the extent of the exercise.  With that said, we apologize for the gap in any updates.  The good news is that Madelyn has been continuing to rock ‘Maintenance’ and be a normal 7-year-old 2ndgrader.  (I just looked back and realized I started this blog the same as the last one)

Maintenance – this is the phase of the treatment that Madelyn is still in and will be until early January 2022 (‘the end’, knock on wood).  She continues to take daily pills throughout the week and ~ every 3 months Maintenance restarts.  We just had our second to last restart of Maintenance and this was a big one for us.  Not only does it mean she has 1 more restart (obviously cool on its own), but the next one is also when she will have her last spinal tap, last week on steroids and she will get her port removed! The port has been such a big part of this journey and openly mom/dad and Madelyn have mixed feelings on it coming out.  The biggest hesitation and what we all agree on is no more port = arm pokes.  Currently getting her port accessed has become a nonevent for Madelyn.  Getting the arm poke on the other hand is a big event and one none of us are looking forward to this again.  We have prepped Madelyn that ‘it’s coming’, but we know it will be an unpleasant event when it happens. Once her port is out and we are “done” she will continue to take bacterium for 3 months to prevent pneumonia while her immune system recovers from the last 2+ years of chemo. She will have a checkup once a month that include the arm poke for drawing blood and a physical exam. With that said, Madelyn has overcome so much since this started and I’m certain she will check off the list soon that arm pokes are no big deal.

…….(so I started this on 9/7 and its now 9/14)….. Its normal for Madelyn to need her numbers checked after a Maintenance restart if her med’s changed at all.  This was the case Monday 9/13, and I took her into Munson at 7am.  Our hope was to get blood taken and for her to get to school on time.  Dad screwed up off the bat and went to the main entrance and not the lab entrance.  Yes back 1 year ago with Covid I was correct, but apparently that changed and I missed the memo.  This didn’t help with getting to school on time.  We finally got checked in, finally got the finger poke to give enough blood and only 10 mins late to school.  As drop off has always been a nervous time for Madelyn, getting to school ‘late’ was not a good way for her first Monday.  This is one of those events that really takes Shannon and I back.  Yes, she had a great day at school and recovered.  But seeing something so hard on her yet it has just become normal really makes you think about all she’s going through.  One of those moments that just brings you back……… 

Back to my blog.  Summer has been very eventful and honestly just busy and too short like everyone else’s.  We did a lot of swimming, boated, traveled, swam a bunch more, found a lot of Petoskey stones, biked, went to weddings, camped, birthday parties, hosted family, and friends etc.  Both kids are at that age now where it’s not quite as much work on mom and dad and just makes all the activates easier and probably more fun for all.  With the medicine, sunburns can be an issue for Madelyn.  Luckily, she is the best sun tanner in the family and somehow will still have tan lines when Spring Break rolls around.  All in all, it was a great summer and both kids and mom / dad were ready to get school going this year.

The kids this year for school switched to the Catholic school in Traverse City.  As you can tell through the blogs, change and anything new usually makes for some nervous moments for Madelyn.  First thing she had to wrap her head around was wearing a uniform to school every day.  To our (major) surprise, she took it in stride.  Our Catholic school also starts at 7:50 which is quite a bit earlier than her last school.  Good thing for us that Madelyn really seems to like getting up early.  Parker isn’t quite as fast in the morning, but he only needs a few more minutes than Madelyn to get his day started.  So far so good with the new school and were looking forward to seeing both our 2nd grader and Kindergartener grow throughout the year.  

We now have our sights set on November 22nd.  This is currently the date for her last restart of Maintenance and the port coming out.  A lot of milestones along the way.  Getting the port put in was such a big day for us and so early in the process.  In a strange way getting it out is going to be oddly bittersweet, but we also know it’s a big milestone and truly means the end is in sight. 

As always we apologies for the lengthy gap in blogs and we thank everyone for the love and support.

6 thoughts on “1st Day of School

  1. We cannot tell you how much Madelyn and all of you have been in our thoughts and prayers to VEEVA the past year and a half. The updates are most appreciated and we are over joyed that she is doing so well. We are back in TC and will be building a home in Suttons Bay. We’d love to stop by sometime this fall just to say hello. Thanks again for the updates.

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  2. Thank you so much for the update on Madelyn! It is heartening to find out that she is so close to the end of treatment and that she and Parker had such a great start in school. Madelyn and all of the family are in our prayers. We hope to see you at Christmas!

    Love, Aunt Diann

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    1. So very proud of Madelyn as well as Parker. It has been quite a journey for everyone and so happy she has done so well! Kuddos to her parents who have done such a remarkable job through this whole thing. I am very blessed by you all and love you to the moon and back!

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  3. Was nice reading your most recent blog, and am so happy things seem to be going as planned! Think about you guys so much and hope all of you have a good year. Hugs!

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  4. What a journey you’ve all been on! So happy you can see the light at the end of this tunnel… pray all continues to go well. Sending big hugs and love your way 🤗❤️
    Aunt Marcia

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